I hate the holidays. That's no big surprise. It seems like it gets harder every year. People don't get it. Holidays are for kids. Guess what. I don't have any. And, I'm definitely not a kid. I don't have parents. So holidays are just damn depressing. I find it an unnecessary chore to put up the stupid tree. I didn't bother this year. We put up a couple strands of icicle lights outside, but there are a lot of dead bulbs and one section died all together. Hope someday I'll get back into the holidays, it used to be fun.
Here's a blog I wrote for single people who have tough times during the holidays. I hope it helps some:
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My suggestion for you is to do something TOTALLY unusual. I was feeling EXACTLY like you are now. Then my brother told me, "You deserve to have a Christmas too!". So, my hubbie and I planned a trip to a casino/spa for the day and I am really looking forward to it! Hope doing something different helps you too!
3m